Tuesday, November 29, 2011

A lot has happened in a very short amount of time...

On October 14, 2011 my wife and I  had a still born baby boy we named Aiden Alexander Griffey...He didn't weigh but 5oz and was approximately 6in long....He was born at 9:58 that night...We were very, very much dealing with pain her nor I had never dealt with before and it took us a couple of weeks and we decided before my wife even had a period after she stopped bleeding from our son we were going to start trying again as soon as possible and that's exactly what we did...I swear my wife who's name is Sonya in case you're wondering is fertility friends best customer...You can tell everything thing on that site by putting in a few things like when you bleed it asks specifics too it would have then asked her what kind of bleeding she was having and stuff like taking your temperature vaginally everyday around the same time but you have to do it as soon as you wake up and using just that site we were able to tell the perfect day to be inseminated and both times now it's worked the first try...That site is amazing...I know my kids are happy about a possibly new little brother or sister but I'm not sure how my mom's going to react even though we told her we were going to try again...When you loose a child like that your mind doesn't say ok Stephanie and Sonya you will no longer want anymore children together because you lost Aiden...The strong desire is still there for her and I to have another child together...Srry to cut this short I had plenty more to say but I have to run...I'll come back sometime later...